There are some
people who leave an indelible impression on our lives, but our equation with
them cannot be classified into any category. Strangely enough, they can neither
be called friends, nor acquaintances. Ali Sir was one such person who made the lives
of those around him a lot better by just being himself. Sandhya was one of his
many students who felt absolutely awe struck in his presence.
Ali Sir was a
trained psychologist and a professor of Organization Behaviour, a compulsory
subject in Sandhya’s first year of MBA. His first lecture on ‘Introduction to
Organization Behaviour’ started with his own introduction which got
overshadowed by his baritone voice and the friendly eye contact he made with
every person in class. The two hours that he spoke for seemed to go by in
minutes, and were followed by a stunned silence as few students had ever
expected to be captivated by a topic as seemingly mundane as Organization
Behaviour.
There was a buzz
in the hostel later that day, with Google searches being done on Ali Sir’s
background. As it turned out, he had a background in experimental theatre
(which explained his perfectly modulated voice) and had won the President’s
award the previous year for his contribution to behavioural science. Sandhya
and her friends were already looking forward to attending his forthcoming
lectures in a batch that otherwise focused on meeting the bare minimum attendance
requirement.
As the semester
progressed, Ali Sir became adept at engaging students with his thoughtfully
crafted lectures and getting the reticent minority to participate in class
discussions. One day he made a surprise announcement in class, one that evoked
collective gasps. Ali Sir was going to deliver a special lecture on ‘Love’ for
the class that weekend, on the occasion of Valentine’s day. His students were free to ask him any
questions that they had on the topic. This unusual declaration piqued the
curiosity of students about the content of this lecture.
The day of Ali
Sir’s much awaited lecture finally dawned and the classroom filled in much
ahead of the scheduled start time of the lecture. Some starry eyed students were
hoping to hear mushy tales of love and companionship. But their hopes were
dashed as soon as Ali Sir gave the disclaimer that the focus of his talk was
not just on love in the romantic sense of the word. He urged the class to go
beyond the obvious and view love as a powerful force that helps loved ones
realize their potential. This sounded quite drab to a class of youngsters in
their early twenties fed on a staple of romantic songs and films. Ali Sir
quoted a lot of examples to drive home the point of true love being
unconditional and non-judgemental. “If you really love someone, you will accept
them for who they are and not have any expectations of them”, he said. This
started a heated debate with some of his students questioning how it could be
possible not to have expectations from your loved ones. Ali Sir remained calm
and asked students not to jump to conclusions. This was definitely not the kind
of talk on ‘love’ they had expected. The students decided to treat this as an
aberration and not let it affect their regard for Ali Sir.
The first break
of the academic year was fast approaching, the time when most people planned to
be with their families for the festival of Diwali. Sandhya and her friends had
a few days to spare before they were to travel to their hometown for the Diwali
break. They decided to ask Ali Sir if he would teach them meditation. They had
heard that some of their batch mates who were scarred by the initial days of
ragging in the hostel, overcame the trauma through meditation techniques taught
to them by Ali Sir. Ali Sir was more than happy to oblige but on one condition.
He started his day early and believed that meditation was most effective when
practiced early in the morning. Sandhya and her friends promised to be present
in class sharp at 6 am for the sessions.
Sandhya felt
wonderful waking up to the sound of chirping birds and the wonderful early
morning hue of the sky. On her way to class, she noticed the beauty of her
management school campus for the first time – the well-manicured lawns and the
different varieties of trees and plants along the way. Ali Sir had reached the
class before time and had brought his laptop with him. He had a serene expression
on his face and asked Sandhya and her friends to sit in silence for a minute.
Ali Sir was a follower of the Brahmakumaris and the meditation technique he was
going to teach was that of ‘soul-consciousness.’ Every day, he played soothing music for a few
minutes, followed by an immersive meditation process focused on reconnecting
with one’s soul. He then read out a short article revolving around a specific
theme, followed by his own thoughts on the topic and a free exchange of
thoughts with Sandhya and her friends. He encouraged them to think of
themselves as ‘enlightened souls’, being mindful of their surroundings and
reminding themselves that they hold the reins to their destiny. “Every time you
do something, ask yourself if that is what an enlightened soul would do!”,
echoed Ali Sir’s baritone voice in a half empty class with Sandhya and a
handful of her friends listening to him in rapt attention.
The two years of
MBA were over in a jiffy, and it was time for Sandhya to bid goodbye to her
friends at the hostel. A new world awaited her, one that would help her stand
on her feet and realize her dreams. Ali Sir had infused a spirit of idealism in
her, making her believe that one can make a difference to others by being kind
and willing to go the extra mile for them. Unfortunately, he had left the
management school the previous year to teach at an American university. But the
enlightened soul that he was, she was sure that he would light up people’s
lives no matter where he was.
3 comments:
Nice one, thanks for sharing.
Nice one, thanks for sharing.
Very well narrated.....I recall your beautiful campus...
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